SUICIDE: SNIPER, A MAJOR SOLUTION?

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Sniper is a poison others consider as water or juice to quench their anger permanently. This poison is meant to kill insects but some people take it to end their problems.
“Certainly, a life lived is better than a life cut short”. Depression destroys but expectations are more deadly.
Depression which is the act of being in a sad or unhappy mode, mostly due to the fact that things happen not as we planned. Expectation on the other hand is the act of anticipating or hoping for something to be done or happen.
Depression and expectation work hand in hand. Youths these days hardly have time to think about what is to come but venture into acts that destroy them completely.
Our expectations have taken the bigger and better part of us. Whatever be the case, SUICIDE IS NOT AN OPTION.
When one is depressed, it is important to talk to someone because it kills when we don’t trust or spit our problems. There are so many examples of suicide cases such as that of a 300 level student of the University of Benin who took sniper because her boyfriend left her. Another story is told of a boy who also committed suicide because he failed jamb. These two victims never expected their outcomes to be this way. The female victim never expected her boyfriend to break up with her neither did the guy expected to fail jamb.
This is as a result of so many expectations. What if she never expected her boyfriend to forever be with her? Or what if he didn’t expect an excellent result from jamb? Probably they would still be alive.
Problems and challenges are certainly part of life. Never expect the best but don’t give up on hope. No matter the difficulty, hang in there, your breakthrough is on its way. Suicide has not in any way be a therapy for heart ache, bitterness, trouble or pain but rather ends up creating more problems especially to the family and loved ones of the victims. ”A problem shared is half solved”.
Do the best things that make you happy. Your happiness shouldn’t depend on someone. Life is good when you live it happily. You are having more opportunities and chances when you are alive. Don’t take your life. Don’t consume sniper. It’s not a juice. It takes away everything from you. It kills.
Don’t be depressed. Learn to associate and talk to people. Expect less. Avoid sniper. Say no to suicide.

As written By: Lucy Bello Richard of Geology Department, University of Maiduguri
Proudly an NFCSer




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